Whether you are looking to strengthen your relationship, find individual clarity, or celebrate a new beginning, I provide a range of services tailored to your specific journey. Here are descriptive overviews of the counseling and ceremonial services available:
Gottman Method Couples Counseling
This research-based approach is designed to help couples disarm conflicting verbal communication, increase intimacy, and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding. Based on the "Sound Relationship House" theory, the Gottman Method uses intensive assessment and practical interventions to strengthen the foundation of your friendship, manage conflict effectively, and build shared meaning. By replacing negative patterns—like criticism and defensiveness—with positive interactions, couples learn to navigate life’s stressors while maintaining a deep emotional connection.
Couple’s Counseling
General couple’s counseling provides a safe, neutral space for partners to address the specific challenges that cause friction or distance in their relationship. Whether you are dealing with communication breakdowns, trust issues, or major life transitions, these sessions focus on improving emotional and relational dynamics. Through guided dialogue and evidence-based strategies, we work together to uncover the underlying patterns of distress, teaching you specific tools to improve closeness, resolve past hurts, and build a more satisfying and fulfilling partnership.
Premarital Counseling
Premarital counseling is a proactive investment in the longevity of your marriage, designed to build a solid foundation before you say "I do." These sessions guide couples through essential conversations about finances, family of origin, parenting styles, and intimacy to ensure alignment and manage expectations. By learning healthy conflict resolution and communication techniques early on, you can identify potential "deal-breakers" and develop a shared roadmap for a stable, harmonious life together.
Individual SFBT Counseling
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a goal-directed, future-oriented approach to individual counseling that focuses on what is possible rather than what happened in the past. Instead of spending extensive time analyzing problems or deficiencies, we work together to identify your existing strengths and resources. By asking "miracle questions" and utilizing scaling techniques, SFBT helps you visualize your desired future and create small, actionable steps to achieve it—making it an efficient choice for those facing specific life changes, stress, or anxiety.
Wedding Officiant Services
Beyond the legal requirements of a marriage ceremony, my wedding officiant services focus on the "heart of the ceremony"—crafting a narrative that truly reflects your unique love story and values. As both a professional counselor and an officiant, I bring a deep understanding of commitment to your special day, helping to personalize your vows and manage the flow of the ceremony with grace. Whether you desire a traditional, spiritual, or contemporary ceremony, my goal is to create a meaningful and unforgettable experience that sets the tone for your life as a married couple.
Therapeutic Mediation
Therapeutic mediation bridges the gap between traditional therapy and legal dispute resolution, focusing on two primary outcomes: relief from emotional stress and a mutually acceptable plan of action. This service is particularly beneficial for parties in high-conflict situations who need to make practical decisions—such as co-parenting or financial arrangements—while healing the emotional rift. By facilitating open, respectful communication, I help both individuals move away from blame and toward cooperative problem-solving in a supportive environment.
Forget the "happily ever after" fairytales—real relationships take skills, not just luck. The Blueprint is a high-energy, interactive workshop designed for teens and young adults who want to navigate the complexities of dating, friendships, and self-love without the unnecessary drama. We’re diving deep into the green flags that matter, mastering the art of the "non-awkward" boundary, and learning how to communicate like a pro even when things get heated. Whether you're currently in a relationship or just leveling up your social game, come discover how to build connections that are actually worth your time. Please call to set up a workshop for your group or head to the "Flyers" tab to see if there is an open workshop available.
Counseling Packages Available
To ensure consistency and provide the best value for your growth, I offer various service packages tailored to your needs. These bundles are designed to take the guesswork out of the therapeutic process, whether you are seeking an intensive "Pre-Marriage" track, a multi-session "Relationship Refresh" for couples, or a goal-oriented "Individual Breakthrough" set for SFBT. Choosing a package allows for a more structured treatment plan and ensures that we have the dedicated time required to see your goals through to completion.
Therapeutic Retreats and Therapy Intensives (Michigan Only)
Sometimes, the traditional therapy session isn’t enough to reach the breakthrough you need. Whether you are looking to repair deep-seated relational fractures as a couple or make time for personal processing with undivided focus, our Therapy Intensives offer a condensed, high-impact alternative to weekly sessions. By dedicating a full day or weekend to your mental wellness, you bypass the "warm-up" phase of standard therapy, allowing for accelerated healing, profound insights, and lasting behavioral change.
Monday 1pm ~ 7pm (Virtual)
Tuesday 12pm ~ 9pm (Virtual and In-Person)
Wednesday 12pm ~ 9pm (Virtual and In-Person)
Thursday 11am ~ 8pm (Virtual)
Friday ~ Call for availability
Other appointment days and times may be available by email or phone request
Services available throughout Michigan
Phone: (313) 403-3230
Email: InfiniteLoveHRS@gmail.com
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